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I do not know what to say except that mine and my families prayer go out to your family, from one firefighting family to another. My father and uncle (both retired) my cousin and myself are all firefighters, Jacksonville Fire Department, our families revolve around the FD.
May ST. Florian and Father Mychal (FDNY) watch over and guide Michael on his journey to our Father. May God bless your family.
chip32223
Jacksonville, FL. USA - Tuesday, February 12, 2002 at 00:14:51 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family
I check Michael's web page quite often and I was floored by Rex's words. Growing up in Throgg's Neck (Locust Point) I knew most of the younger Lynch's from German Stadium, to Silver Beach, and especially Chip's, Danny Boys and other watering holes. Rex's words brought back a flood of memories from those days. These memories both make me smile and shed a
tear, but it makes me happy to know that I was lucky enough to know Michael.
Thanks, Mal.
P.S. Tommy congratulations on the birth of your son Michael, God Bless. Mal
MalGFlynn@AOL.com
White River JCT., Vermont USA - Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 13:44:40 (PDT)
I want to thank you for being so open with what you've been going through. It has helped me understand and accept the events. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, but do feel joy for you that had have such a wonderful family to depend on. God bless and take care.
st. petersburg, fl USA - Tuesday, February 05, 2002 at 11:52:42 (PDT)
TO MY OLDER BROTHER AND MY IRISH TWIN MICHAEL
I have never expressed my feelings for you on your website before tonight. It
has been the hardest time of my life without you around. I can not recall a part of my life that you were not a major part
of. You were not only my best friend you were my brother, and what i thought would be a lifelong
relationship. However that has been cut short, not because of the deranged people that took you from
us, but because you are a true hero MICHAEL. I will never forget the secrets we shared, or
the special bond we had as brothers. Michael, my children GOD willing will always know how much of a courageous man you are and always will be so proud to be your niece or nephew.
Michael you were the best older brother a man could ask for, when most older brothers would brush the younger brother off you grabbed my shoulder and said follow me
Thomas. You would bring me fishing at Fort Schuyler, or show me dancing girls through the windows at
ruffles. I long to hear your gentle laugh or feel your loving embrace. I feel part of me has left this world with
you, but mike you would not have that! I CELEBRATE YOUR LIFE, because that is what you always did.
Mike you were my BEST MAN and your speech was a
pisser! I am so glad that you were here with myself and Tracy on that day. The
way you took care of all the wedding day confusion was perfect, I
wish I had the same opportunity to return the love you gave us.
Michael you are so missed, not only by mom and dad and all your brothers and
sisters, but by your FDNY brothers and of course the wonderful young men and women from the hood.
In closing MIKE! I am so glad i did this tonight,
because i was asked to be the godfather of MICHAEL ANTHONY LYNCH. Named after you tough
guy, YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MY HERO MIKE, HOW LUCKY AM I TO SHARE MY HERO WITH THE WORLD!
I love you and miss you brother every minute of every day.
REX
Thomas Lynch
How u doing,com
Edgewater, NY USA - Sunday, February 03, 2002 at 01:02:16 (PDT)
Michael,
You know who ever said that time heals all wounds sure never felt this one. As time goes by, I just hurt more. I am sorry Michael, for not cherishing the time that we had as children, for not spending more time as adults, but mostly, for never saying sorry.
I miss you.
Love, Colleen
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, Ohio USA - Saturday, February 02, 2002 at 21:13:42 (PDT)
My prayers are with you and your family. God will take care of you
linnette11@home.com
norfolk, Va USA - Friday, January 25, 2002 at 19:48:30 (PDT)
To the Lynch family.
I am very sorry about what's going on. Its very terrible. I wish you very good luck and everybody in the Netherlands keep our minds with
you. birgit, 13 years old.
hallo_birgit50@hotmail.com
hoorn the netherlands - Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 10:30:53 (PDT)
I truly want to say my thoughts and prayers have been with each and every family...As a mother of 3 lil girls(ages 6,almost5 and 12wks) i truly cant imagine what pain you are feeling...the loss of a child is a extremely painful thing i am sure...i dont think i could go on without my girls so that means that you are extremely strong people who i know will overcome this yet never forget...my your days be filled with many days of happiness in the future as your family takes the time to heal but never forget...may god bless you and your family forever...love, marci connell
charliesangels93@yahoo.com
jacksonville , florida USA - Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 06:33:16 (PDT)
I am so touched by hearing the news of your tragic loss. As editor of our local city's newsletter, I have written a story regarding Michael's death, as his sister resides here and some of our firemen attended the December 7 Celebration of Life Memorial. September 11 gives all of us a heavy heart and I join you in your sorrow. You are in my thoughts, and shall remain in my thoughts always.
With love and respect,
Dean Langevin
deano2222@aol.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Monday, January 14, 2002 at 16:12:30 (PDT)
To the Lynch family, and Stephanie;
Words can not explain how truly amazing each and every one of you are. Your strength and composure throughout the services held for mike were an inspiration and source of comfort to all. I extend my deepest sympathy to you.
Mike Lynch, It was an honor to be your friend. You will never be forgotten, but forever missed.
Karla Zuardo
N.Francese@aol.com
Pelham Manor, NY USA - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 16:15:56 (PDT)
I know Michael's cousin Sinead McGlinchey (Co. Tyrone) and must say that hearing her talk about the family and Michael really makes one realise just how terribly tragic Sept. 11th was. Our thoughts and sympathy are with you and all the other families affected.
Andy.
andy.speirs@doeni.gov.uk
Ballymena, County Antrim N.Ireland - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 04:22:55 (PDT)
Michael you will forever be in our thoughts. We miss you.
carig0112@aol.com
Bronx, NY USA - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 09:17:34 (PDT)
Today is 4 months since that horrible day and we can't believe that it has been that long. We miss you and love you and know some day we will laugh with you again.
sheilaface@hotmail.com
Bronx, NY USA - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 07:43:40 (PDT)
My heart goes out to your family. I wake up mornings and the reality of Sept. 11 still hits me hard. I Hope that they find "Your Michael" soon so that he can come home to you. I have a section dedicated the the WTC Fallen Firefighters on my HFD Memorial web site. I would be honored if you visited my web site. Scott M. www.houstonfirememorial.org
Scott Mellott-Houston Fire Department
scottmel@juno.com
Houston, Texas USA - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 23:36:27 (PDT)
May God grant your family strength to make it through this tragedy. May we
all learn from Michael's dedication to saving lives that God gives us all
special talents to save lives in our own special ways.
rpirau@ieee.org
Greenwood, IN USA - Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 20:33:14 (PDT)
En faisant une recherche sur ces terribles attentats, je sus tombée sur votre site, et... je fûs énormément touchée. Ces cruels attentats m'ont beaucoup attristée et à cette heure, malgré moi, je me sens américaine et solidaire avec toutes ces familles endeuillées. j'aimerai tant pouvoir vous aider. Je pleure ces victimes qui pourtant me sont inconnues mais tout ça est si horrible. Mes prières pour Michael se joignent aux vôtres. je suis de tout coeur avec vous. Très amicalement. God bless Michael and America.
Aurélie
lyly20aol.com
nancy, lorraine FRANCE - Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 05:52:44 (PDT)
WE pray daily for you and all those lost on Sept. 11, 2001. Thank you for your bravery and courage.
profgaudet@hotmail.com
lynbrook, ny USA - Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 17:55:39 (PDT)
Happy New Year!
I Celebrate the life of Michael with you. I realize he is missed greatly.
God Bless All his Family. All my love! Sincerely, Gloria Hauffen
charandsara@earthlink.net
Alhambra, California USA - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 21:52:37 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family,
This Website is a blessing for me and I know many others who have lost touch with Mike over the years. Seeing Pictures and reading comments from everyone has flooded me with wonderful memories. I wanted to let everyone know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless You all.
All My Love,
Rocco, Melinda, Christopher, Caitlin, Josh and Jessica Prisciandaro
RoccoP70@AOL.COM
Fishkill , New York USA - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 18:02:54 (PDT)
RoccoP70@aol.com
Fishkill, New York USA - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 17:31:44 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family,
I have prayed for you since 9/11. As the year ends, I continue to hold you up in prayer. I did not know Michael, but I know John and LouAnn very well. It is clear that your family is a very special one. It is clear that Michael is a special young man that God loves very much.
The life of a man who lived out of a commitment to others is to celebrated.
Michael's choice of his profession and his behavior on that fateful day is one to be celebrated.
God bless you all.
galvin.tj@pg.com
Cincinnati, OH USA - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 12:28:21 (PDT)
To The Lynch Family;
No words can ease your pain in the lose of a son, brother and friend. Firefighting is not just a job, but a love of life and a honor to be able to help people in their greatest need. Your son is a member of the greatest fire department in the world (the FDNY) and
I'm sure he would tell you the same things I have. Just know that you are not alone, even though we don't feel the same pain, the whole fire service family grieves with you. God Bless you and your family.
Bruce, A Brother Firefighter.
bs1279@aol.com
Fort
Myer, VA USA - Thursday, December 27, 2001 at 18:45:21 (PDT)
Although Michael (as well as John and Dennis) has been on my mind constantly since that horrific day, I have never felt comfortable in choosing the correct words to use in signing this
guestbook. As I am still experiencing tremendous difficulty in expressing my love and sorrow for the
Lynchs. Steph, and all of Mike's friends, I read this poem and knew I had to share it with everyone. Each time I read it, I can picture each one of our lost heroic friends telling us not to worry about them, shrugging their shoulders and even giggling. Please take the time to read this poem as I hope it brings comfort to all during this season.
Allison
(a Sept. 11th poem....)
My First Christmas in Heaven
I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below
with the tiny lights, like heavens stars reflecting on the show.
The sight is so spectacular please wipe away the tear.
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music cant compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away, we really arent apart.
So be happy for me dear ones, you know I hold you dear
And be glad Im spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift from my heavenly home above
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is the gift more precious than pure gold
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other as my father said to do,
For I cant count the blessings or love he has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Author Unknown
Allison
Splitsoda@aol.com
Yorktown Heights, NY USA - Thursday, December 27, 2001 at 18:41:19 (PDT)
I'm just 13 a year old, and I live in Canada. I was extremely affected by Sept. 11, even though I knew nobody who passed away. I never even have visited New York, but I cried everyday when I saw the news and I didn't sleep for like a week. I believe that the Fireman and police man who passed away are angels. God has them with him, at his side. There all looking down at us and protecting all their families, friends and the fireman and police of the future. Believe it or not, he's living in your heart at this very moment. So be good to your heart and to other people so he doesn't get affected by it. I love your website, its such an excellent way to show your love for Michael. May God bless you!! Love You Always!
lilypad0228@hotmail.com Canada - Wednesday, December 26, 2001 at 18:48:26 (PDT)
He is now an angel. God has him at his side.
lilypad0228@hotmail.com Canada - Wednesday, December 26, 2001 at 18:34:06 (PDT)
I just wanted to say that, iam sorry and that I will keep you in my prayers.
snowboardn_bum@hotmail.com
Farmington , New Mexico USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 23:09:14 (PDT)
Dear Family, Well today is Christmas, December 2001, and as the night was ending I thought to myself "I wonder how those families who lost people on September 11, 2001 are doing today?"...so I thought that I would get onto the internet and see what I could read about the WTC. Since this tragedy happened, I feel that I have not been able to help out those families in these times, so I thought that I would write as I read your story and tell you how very hard this might be for you. I have never had anyone close to me die, so I have no idea what the pain is like...but I did want to say that even though Mike is not "there" with you, he really is, and watching, laughing crying, and having a great time with the rest of you....even though you can not see him in front of you, or hear his voice....he is there more often now, then he was before....so I want you and your family and friends to remember that.....well you all have a Merry Christmas to all...may god give you peace.......love Megan
Makaylers@aol.com
Seattle, Washington USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 21:05:28 (PDT)
Dear Kathleen, Jack and family,
Just to let you know that you are all very much in our thoughts and in our prayers this Christmas day.
Henry Family, Rhue, Tubbercurry.
, Co. Sligo. Ireland. - Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 03:23:14 (PDT)
Michael, it is Christmas Eve, 10 pm, in the past we would be at Mom and Dad's, having baked ziti as we were getting ready for Christmas Eve Mass. We would take turns taking showers, getting ready for the midnight Mass, and having bacon and eggs at the Lynch house afterwards. All our friends would come, Steph would be there, for years she was there for me, later she was there for you. Lots of others would come, Brian and Shaun Burns, John Badalati and Sheila, Scott Harwood, Brian and Deidre Mulligan, lots of friends would come, but more importantly, our family. All the brothers and sisters that could be there, the nieces and nephews, our cousins Mary and Eileen and of course Aunt Agnes and Uncle Pat, who were always there, no matter when. We would sing carols, enjoy the company and just have fun. Tonight, I sit in Ohio, our children are asleep, they left messages for you in the mailbox for the angles to take to heaven tonight, since we can not give you a gift. I ache for our family, I ache for Mom and Dad, and I ache for Stephanie. The pain is so great Michael, how do we carry on? I wish I could have the Christmas' of the past, when you were here, perhaps I would not have taken them for granted if I had known you wouldn't be here. Christmas will never be the same Michael, neither will life. I miss you.
Love your little sister,
Colleen
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, Ohio USA - Monday, December 24, 2001 at 19:22:50 (PDT)
The Lynch Family,
With Christmas here unfortunately it makes this time of year more difficult for you but I think that with all the great memories your family has of the past Holiday seasons it will make this Holiday season special.
As I have just told Colleen and Jason, check the sky tonight, there will be another bright star showing the way...Michael.
On behalf of the Fairfield (Ohio) FD, we hope that you have a safe and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and we continue to keep Michael in our thoughts and prayers.
Russ Kammer
Fairfield FD
rkammer@fuse.net
Fairfield , Ohio USA - Monday, December 24, 2001 at 09:42:58 (PDT)
Wishing the Lynch family and Stephanie a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Tom and Susan O'Connor
tosmh@aol.com
Nanuet, NY USA - Monday, December 24, 2001 at 09:28:14 (PDT)
hi,
I can not possibly understand the pain and suffering the lynch family has been through.. since september 11 i have had a friend who comitted suicide by standing in front of an 80 ton train.. It just makes me so mad that it takes something so big to make people to come together, we take life for granted.. i am glad to hear that there are people like mike in this world who are those special heroes i jsut believe it's too bad that to be a hero you must lose your life when realy life is a gift and people are just so blind they dont see it that way..
I would like to wish everyone a merry Christmas and a happy new year.. my thoughts and prayers are with everyone!
shannon_stang@hotmail.com, saskatchewan canada - Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 22:38:49 (PDT)
The birth of Christ is upon us. A time of comfort and family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you now, more than ever. May Santa bring you gifts of peace and restful slumber. God Bless You All. Leo and Julie
springlane@msn.com
Newtown, PA USA - Saturday, December 22, 2001 at 17:30:18 (PDT)
Dear Jack & Kathleen & family: I had tried writing you twice on Dec. 7th; once while the service was occuring, and again later in the day, but my letter wouldn't/couldn't go through, so hoping this one does. At any rate, wanted you to know that while your service was in full celebration we were thinking of you on this coast, praying & so sorry not to be there.
Having been taught that God is part human in His divinity, I've longed believed that thus makes Him part selfish. And therefore, why he wants to surround Himself with the best. Also, He no doubt could use some support in the courage department, given the state of the world, and we all know your Michael is courage personified. God Himself claimed Michael to personally make heaven a better, safer, braver place. Just as Michael's presence on this earth made this world a better, safer, braver place. But angels can't stay earthbound forever, and heroes continue on their journeys to further their immortal feats.
May your Christmas season be blessed with the warmth of memories and the warmer waves of hope.
Colleen
tstein@ucla.edu
LA USA - Friday, December 21, 2001 at 23:43:14 (PDT)
A very long time ago, Michael and I were crew on a sailing trip aboard the Baker's Errki (sp?). We spent a long weekend sailing along the Jersey Coast down to the Chesapeake Bay. It was a great trip and Michael certainly added to the memories of my more adventurous youth. With a wife, two kids, a house and a job, I haven't been quite that
adventurous for some time, so I the stories of those trips are often told and cherished.
My heartfelt prayers go out to all of you for your loss and Michael thanks for making the trip one of my cherished memories!
Dan & Suzy Sundius
Dan Sundius
dsundius@rational.com
Linthicum, MD USA - Friday, December 21, 2001 at 12:51:10 (PDT)
Dear Michael's family and Stephanie,
This Christmas will be difficult for so many people, but my prayer is that family, friends, faith, and beautiful memories of Michael will bring comfort and joy to you all this holiday season.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
May the peace of the Lord control your hearts,
Shelley
shellanddes@sosbbs.com
Laceyville, PA USA - Friday, December 21, 2001 at 12:28:30 (PDT)
First, I would like to commend you on the fabulous web-site you have created in memory of Michael. As you know, you are not grieving alone. I grieve with you, not only at the loss of a brother firefighter but also the loss of a LYNCH. Although I have never had the pleasure of meeting Mike, when you see your family's name among the list of many, it touches you deeply. I would just like to say that I'm glad I found this site and that from myself and the rest of the "LYNCHMOB" at the Perry Twp. Vol. Fire Dept. Station 32 that were here for you and with you in this tragic time. God bless all of you and Have a Merry Christmas!!
www.captainlynch@yahoo.com
Perryopolis, PA USA - Wednesday, December 19, 2001 at 08:37:40 (PDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Growing up here I thought I had seen it all, sadly so very wrong.
God bless you, protect and strengthen you all
Matt
valtonen71@hotmail.com, Belfast Ireland - Monday, December 17, 2001 at 08:16:32 (PDT)
http://www.nydailynews.com/2001-12-17/News_and_Views/City_Beat/a-135451.asp
Mr. Lynch in the paper again.
Carig0112@aol.com
Bronx, NY USA - Monday, December 17, 2001 at 08:02:09 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family:
I wanted you to know that Michael and your family have been on my heart and prayers since September 11. I know Michael from our years at Cardinal Spellman HS. Even now I am at a loss of what to say...but wanted to show support. Please know that I will continue to pray for Michael and your entire family's pain at this time. I also pray that you will continue to remember the joy Michael brought to your life (your website is a blessing) and will continue to lean on each other and God for the strength you need. It is not an easy time and I wanted you all to know you are in my
family's thoughts daily.
Paul - please do not hesitate to contact me if you just need a supporting ear and friend.
- John
john.oleary@gartner.com
Stratford, CT USA - Friday, December 14, 2001 at 11:46:16 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family - please accept my sincerest and deepest sympathies during this time of indescribable loss. I am friend of Billy Owens from Pa and he forwarded this web site to me. I am glad he did. I did not know Mike but he was a brother of mine. Please know that we have shed many tears here for our lost family members in NY. Mike did not just have the 13000 brothers of NY. He has the over 1 million family members across this country who
gladly give their lives to get Mike back. But we know that he is not really gone. He lives on in all of you and in all of us. Please call upon me should you ever need anything at all... A three hour drive is nothing if you need the grass mowed. Stay safe and god bless.
Matt Tobia, Lieutenant Truck 13
Anne Arundel County MD Fire Department
Local 1563
mattfire698@onemain.com
Harrisburg, PA USA - Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 13:55:55 (PDT)
I am a friend of Bill Owens. My boyfriend was able to attend Mike's memorial service. Even though I was not able to make the service, I read the memorial booklet Jim brought home.
Mike seemed like a very special person, and I owe him all the thanks in the world for what he did and what he gave for his country on Sept 11. His memory will live on in my heart
and Jim's heart forever. God bless all of you.
sandra@epix.net
Kingston, Pa. USA - Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 12:11:09 (PDT)
Happy Birthday little brother. I love you.
Kathleen
kalmrm@msn.com
Buffalo, NY USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 18:56:37 (PDT)
I am thinking about all of you today, on Michael's birthday.
Happy Birthday Michael; I miss you and love you.
sheilaface@hotmail.com
Bronx, New York USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 13:40:31 (PDT)
Dear Fred and the entire Lynch Family,
I am so sorry for your terrible loss. The strong and faithful spirit of this tremendous family obviously dwells within each member. I have spent time reading the guestbook on more than one occasion and it sounds like you have memories to keep Michael alive for a long time to come. It seems like yesterday that my friends and I were having so much fun at Villanova with Fred and his gang. I recognize the sounds of fun in those messages and hopefully they bring happy thoughts.
Your family has been in my thoughts and prayers everyday since I saw Cardinal McCarrick on TV mentioning his nephew. May God Bless you all with strength and peace.
Tara and Rich Ramsey; Noreen, Molly and Maura too!
rtramsey@msn.com
Vero Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 10:58:18 (PDT)
Dear Michael,
You are in my thoughts every day, but especially today, your birthday. I know you are here holding us up. Instead of crying today, I am going to start yelling at FedEx trucks too! And I will also stick my head in a few classroom doors and say "Beuhler...... Buehler...." like I remember you did during high school. All my memories of you bring a huge grin to my face. My love goes up to you.
Eileen
jeme87@msn.com
Cross River , NY USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 09:53:08 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family,
I just wanted to write to tell you just how beautiful Michael's celebration mass was. From the beautiful flowers and photos at the
funeral parlor Thursday night to the procession from your home to the church with the fire truck and bag pipes. I feel so honored and
privileged to have been included in a memorial that I will remember for the rest of my life. Thank you for sharing this experience with me and for making me feel like part of your family. After listening to
everyone's stories about Michael, I realized that he was just as wonderful, kind and sincere as the rest of the Lynch gang. The stories were a true testament of his bravery and courage, which I now see he gets from both of his parents. The two of you are so strong in so many aspects of your life( your faith, values and beliefs)
I am thinking of all of you on this day 12/12/01. I will be saying some extra prayers that God continues to keep all of you strong, safe, and united. May God bless each and every one of you today and always.
Terry
Bullet123@aol.com
Montvale, NJ USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 06:09:39 (PDT)
I will remember Michael and your family in my prayers.
Jim Floryshak
Captain, Truck 4, Scranton Fire Department
j.floryshak@worldnet.att.net
Scranton, PA USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 05:41:11 (PDT)
Maureen and all the Lynch Family,
The celebration of Michaels's life was incredible. It made me realize how loved he was by everyone who was lucky enough to have known him. I think of him often and I know he will always be with you.
Joyce
LBermanM@AOL.com
Westfield, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 18:46:33 (PDT)
Dear Stephanie,
My English is not enough good for tell you the pain we feel in the deep of my heart. My husband and I insist for help you and invite you for a rest in our house of Provence. Please consider seriously this proposition. This is the minimum we must do. Let us know how to help you....
With all our love.......
morbraz@hotmail.com
Rians,
Provence-Côte d'Azur FRANCE - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 15:47:55 (PDT)
Dear Jack , Kathleen & Family,
In the spirit of Michael’s zeal to live life well with a mind toward others, I am compelled to write to you. I find my thoughts often turning toward you as a family. I want you to know we keep you in our prayers. Coming from a large family myself, I realize how much sacrifice is involved in living not only for one’s self but for the benefit of others. It’s how Mike lived. It’s the example you set for him. So, it is right to celebrate his life. Celebrate the gift God first gave to you in Mike. Celebrate his embrace of his Good Friday for he surely celebrates his Easter Sunday and waits for the time when you, too, will celebrate with him in heaven.
God Bless,
Sean Brennan and Family
gfhgcj@worldnet.att.net
Bronx, NY USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 14:07:08 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family:
I know it has been quite a few years since we've had any regular contact. My wife and I were at the celebration service for Michael on the evening of December 6th and again at Michael's celebration of life mass on the 7th, though we didn't get to see you on the 7th.
Michael, I am certain, is very happy with how you chose to remember him - full of life.
My wife, Edith, and I were very moved by you words at the mass. I could not hold back my tears. We just want you to know you did a great job!!! Mike is very proud!!!
We love you and will keep you in our prayers.
God Bless,
Sean Brennan and Family
gfhgcj@worldnet.att.net
Bronx, NY USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 09:38:43 (PDT)
My Dear Brother Michael,
I am home now, just fresh in from NY and your Celebration of Life mass. It was beautiful. Everyone did a wonderful job. I know that you were proud of all your brothers and sisters, and I know that you were there holding Stephanie up, I left space for you. She did an amazing job expressing her love for you. Your other brothers, the FDNY did an amazing job too. We loved the stories they told, especially the one by Owens. As I was putting Justin on the bus for school, a FEDEX truck drove by, I called out "Wilson" at the top of my lungs. My neighbors
thought I was nuts I am sure, but I my dear brother, I thought of you and the humor you brought to everyday life. You truly do live on in each of us, I am so happy to have had the short 30 years with you, I will always hold you in my heart and will forever hear you in the laughter among your family and friends. I love you Michael, and I miss you terribly.
Love your sister
Colleen
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 05:00:24 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family,
Just wanted to let you all know you were in our thoughts and prayers as you celebrated Michael's life on Friday. Even though we couldn't be there personally we were thinking of you and wishing you all peace. Ruth and my mom told me the service was just absolutely beautiful and very moving. I'm so glad it was such a gorgeous day, you and Michael deserved that.
Love to all,
Kate and Mike Donlevie and the Girls
mpd39@home.com
ocean city, nj USA - Sunday, December 09, 2001 at 18:51:00 (PDT)
Dear Lynch family,
My prayers are with you. Im sorry for your loss.
Marie Rivera
mtshorty@hotmail.com
Bronx, N.Y. USA - Sunday, December 09, 2001 at 09:05:22 (PDT)
I wrote a long time ago and told you that the Newman Center would be praying for your family. Over several weeks, I asked for his safe return during the prayers of the faithful. In our community, individual prayers are said out loud during mass, no matter what your prayer is. It is with a heavy heart that I must ask the community to pray for his soul. Please know that our community grieves with you and that Michael and his entire family are in the prayers of St. Paul's Newman Center in Laramie, Wyoming. Thank you for sharing your son, your brother, your love with the entire world. May the peace of Christ be with you this holiday season.
Christina
Christina
cspindler2@juno.com
Laramie, WY USA - Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 09:43:53 (PDT)
Dear Stephanie and the Lynch Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
as you celebrate Michael's life today.
God Bless you always.
Eileen Cotter
rinceagusceol@yahoo.com
East Rockaway, NY USA - Friday, December 07, 2001 at 08:28:01 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. We are keeping Michael and the entire Lynch family in our thoughts and prayers.
The Duggan family
dvfco@aol.com
Buffalo , NY USA - Friday, December 07, 2001 at 08:08:39 (PDT)
On this most difficult day, please accept the condolences of our family.
Brian, Margaret, Patrick, Michael and Matthew
burksutt@buffnet.net
Buffalo, NY USA - Friday, December 07, 2001 at 06:52:00 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family and Stephanie,
You have been in our thoughts and prayers daily, but especially today as you celebrate Michael's life this weekend. We are sorry we cannot attend to show our support but please know that we will continue to pray for all of you.
God Bless,
Julie, Goose, Kelsey, Elizabeth, Megan and Joe Goslee
(Friends of Maureen and Tom's)
P.S. Great job Tom! Thanks for sharing this beautiful website with us!
wgoslee@cinci.rr.com
Mason, Ohio USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 17:48:02 (PDT)
Along with my wife, Eloise, and my children, Kirsten, Devin and Ian, I extend my deepest sympathies to Stephanie and all the Lynch family. I'm sorry I never met Michael but my brothers Danny and Jimmy spent many enjoyable hours with our cousins, the Lynch's. St. Francis de Sales said: "Let God gather to Himself what He has planted in His garden - He takes nothing out of season." Perhaps, to some degree, your grief will be assuaged by the realization of how God wanted to have Michael closer to Him.
I've placed Michael's picture on my computer screen at work. To those who come by and ask, I tell them about Michael and ask them to say a prayer for him, his family and the others who also perished. I too keep you all in my prayers.
mclaughlin43@hotmail.com
Herndon, VA USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 16:08:10 (PDT)
Mike,
As I start wrapping things up for the day and I prepare to leave work now and go to the funeral home and then tomorrow to your Celebration mass, I just wanted to tell you how much I miss and love you and that you will always be in my memories. We always had a great time together and that is what I will think about these next two days to find the strength to be strong for the people who will find it impossible to be. I know things will never be the same but keep in mind that one thing will not change, your friends will always be there for Steph and your family as I know you will always be watching out for us as well. So, until it's "Shot Time" again, I'll be thinking of you.
Your friend,
Nicky
Nick Carozza
nick.carozza@ivyhill-wms.com
Throggs Neck, NY USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 13:17:54 (PDT)
To Mr & Mrs Lynch & family (Stephanie included),
There are no words...
I went to elementary school with Thomas, and my sister was in Mike's year in St. Frances. You are all wonderful people who radiate such kindness and warmth with your presence. Although I was never intimate friends with any one of you, I always admired you as a family. I know I am not the only one who thought this of you through the years...you are one of the most admired families in Throgg's Neck. Through the years, and now...
I wish my admiration of you could have remained from afar in the good wishes for you when I would hear about the joyous events in your lives.
You will remain in my prayers.
Respectfully,
Jennifer Strom
caramba@warwick.net
Pine Bush, New York USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 12:19:57 (PDT)
Our deepest sympathy during these trying times. We know Michael is gone but our Memories of him will last forever.
cggombah22@aol.com USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 08:54:56 (PDT)
God bless the Lynch family. Our prayers and sorrows are with you all. He has passed as one f our country's greatest hero's.
Sincerely,
Michael and Cindy Griffin
Throggs Neck
bxGriffs@aol.com
Bronx, NY USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 06:10:05 (PDT)
OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.
JOE & PAT SGARLATA
TINDALL1@AOL.COM
BRONX, NY USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 05:49:30 (PDT)
Everyday I have been reading the messages being sent and I thought how can I put a lifetime of memories with mike in a few paragraphs. the truth is I can't. I have known mike and the lynch family my whole life. I got more in trouble because of Mike and Thomas (more Thomas) than I needed , but I wouldn't trade those memories for anything. The tragic events that occurred on 9/11/01 might of taken mike from us, but they can't take our memories of mike and what wonderful memories they are. on 9/11/01 mike made the ultimate sacrifice as a New York City Fireman, you will never be forgotten.
AMH416@AOL.COM
BRONX, NY USA - Wednesday, December 05, 2001 at 21:36:03 (PDT)
With deepest sympathy to all of the Lynch Family.
jben58125@aol.com
Thornwood, New York USA - Wednesday, December 05, 2001 at 19:30:00 (PDT)
My Deepest Sympathy to the Lynch Family and Friends. Although I did not know
Michael, after reading this website, crying, laughing, talking and remembering what I do know of the Lynch family I regret that I cannot attend the Celebration of
Michael's Life. My prayers and thoughts remain with you. A friend of Fred and Ruth.
Gina
Gina Sullivan
GinaMSullivan@aol.com
North Andover, MA USA - Wednesday, December 05, 2001 at 11:08:35 (PDT)
To one of the biggest and most beautiful families I have ever seen,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. We will be with you in spirit during your celebration of Michael's life, knowing that you will be reflecting on the true meaning of family and friendship. We have been blessed with the friendship of John and LouAnn over the last few years and look forward to the day when we can spend time visiting to hear more about the wonderful brother that Michael has always been.
The website has been a very special way to share in your memories, hope and lives over the past 2 months - thank you for opening up and sharing! We have
received a lot of support from those around us and have shared Michael's story with many.
May God bless and be with all of you.
The Kings of NW England (John, Jill, Samantha and Andrew)
king.ja.1@pg.com
Wilmslow, Cheshire England - Tuesday, December 04, 2001 at 11:02:02 (PDT)
I'm sorry this comes so late...
Paul,
I was so sorry to hear about Michael when you told me. I know that I only met Michael
once and we just played some wiffle ball together, but I'm still sorry, for you and your family. I
know you lost someone you love very much. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Jason
jason.adams.london@misys.com USA - Tuesday, December 04, 2001 at 09:22:55 (PDT)
I'm a friend of Paul Bertrand whom I loved as a wonderful Christian gentlemen and friend. All of us at the Abbey grieve at the loss of both Paul and Michael.
Fr Simon
Father Simon Sansone, o.c.s.o.
simon554@aol.com
Spencer, MA USA - Monday, December 03, 2001 at 06:58:29 (PDT)
I have written this poem in memory of Michael. I hope that everyone is doing okay. I pray every night for Michael's return. God Bless You All.
Dear Michael,
You were extremely brave.
Dear Michael,
You were swept away in a gigantic, hatred wave.
Dear Michael,
I met you only once or twice.
Dear Michael,
From how everyone speaks of you, I know that you were nice.
Dear Michael,
Your fiancé, Stephanie, loved you so.
Dear Michael,
I couldn't bear to see you go.
Dear Michael,
You were in the state of saving others.
Dear Michael,
You were rescuing them as if their own brother.
Dear Michael,
Everyone in your family misses you.
Dear Michael,
Since September 11th, the whole world has been blue.
Dear Michael,
You are a hero in my eyes!
Dear Michael,
You saved many other lives.
Dear Michael,
Throughout these past months, the world is more like friends.
Dear Michael,
Other countries will stand by us until the end.
Dear Michael,
From California to New York City, everyone in America has an American flag in their home.
Dear Michael,
We now know that no one will ever be alone.
Dear Michael,
To get to Heaven could take a while.
Dear Michael,
But all you had to do was give God your smile.
Dear Michael,
We all wish you could come back.
Dear Michael,
We all now that if you could, right away you'd get your sack.
Dear Michael,
I am writing this with a tearstained face.
Dear Michael,
Thinking of you and Stephanie being married on an altar with lace.
Dear Michael,
We all know that bravery is not something that you lack.
Dear Michael,
So please, please, please come back!
Sincerely Yours with Love,
Brigid Kathleen Donlevie
Brigid Donlevie - Ruth and Fred's neice
mealltheway405@yahoo.com
Ocean City , New Jersey USA - Sunday, December 02, 2001 at 15:04:49 (PDT)
Dear Kathleen, Jack and the entire Lynch family,
Ann Marie and I share in your profound sadness for Michael. At the same time we are inspired and strengthened by the tremendous example of Christian faith and
commitment Kathleen and Jack have brought forth in their lives, the lives of their children and through their wonderful extended family. The evidence of God's hand is overwhelming!
With Love!
AnnMarie, Pat, Kieran, Michael, Paul & Sarah Brennan
Pat Brennan
patrick.brennan@us.pwcglobal.com
Glen Rock, NJ USA - Sunday, December 02, 2001 at 11:35:22 (PDT)
May God bless you and your friends and family.
gobucs1@bellsouth.net
Huntersville, NC USA - Saturday, December 01, 2001 at 18:03:08 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family:
I am John Flanagan's wife, Joanne. John and I have been friends with Michael (and Thomas) for many many years. As did I, John always enjoyed hanging out with both your sons. If he heard Mike and Rex would be hanging out on a particular evening he just knew that he was in for a really good time! Too good on some nights if you know what I mean! John also shared Mike's dream of becoming a firefighter. John specifically pulled some strings to have himself stationed at Engine 62/Ladder 32 just so he could work side-by-side with his buddy, Mike. John has been stationed at 62/32 since the summer and had been anxiously awaiting Mike to finish his rotation at Engine 40 so that they could finally work together..doing a job that both dreamed of!
I can't express the sadness my husband now feels in his heart not having Mike around. John took some pictures out of our albums and brought them to the firehouse to hang up. He enjoys being able to look up and see Mike's smile everyday that he's at work.
So I guess, in a way, Mike and John are still together at 62/32.. still smiling at each other, still remembering the good times they shared, still looking out for each other and their fellow FDNY brothers both in heaven and on earth.
Mike: You're a very very special Guardian Angel to many many people now. Please look after your buddy, John and the rest of your family and friends and keep us all safe. We miss you!
Love,
Joanne Flanagan
Joanne Flanagan
jnjflanagan@aol.com
Throggs Neck, Bronx, New York USA - Wednesday, November 28, 2001 at 10:35:57 (PDT)
My utmost deepest condolences to your family. I can not even begin imagining
the grief your family is feeling.
I too, am not an American-born citizen. I was born in Damascus, Syria. I came here very young, and pledge myself to this great country. My family, home, and work are here. This is where I belong. I will do anything to defend this great nation. May God Bless your family in this time of grief. I will continue to pray for your family, and this nation.
God Bless You
darwich78@earthlink.net
Lake Oswego, OR USA - Sunday, November 25, 2001 at 00:57:09 (PDT)
sorry for your loss. we are all praying for all of you.
USA - Saturday, November 24, 2001 at 11:03:23 (PDT)
The Lynch Family,
Even though Michael will not be with you this Thanksgiving I know he remains with you in your thoughts and there will be many great memories reflected on this day.
On behalf of the Fairfield (Ohio) FD, we continue our prayers and hope that this Thanksgiving, even in this difficult time may be enjoyed by all of you.
Russell L Kammer
rkammer@fairfield-city.org USA - Thursday, November 22, 2001 at 09:37:19 (PDT)
My prayers and thoughts are with Michael and all of you today. Thank you for how inspirational you have been to all.
Luke, O.S.B.
Luke@Delbarton.org USA - Thursday, November 22, 2001 at 05:54:44 (PDT)
I have stayed up very late this evening reading all of the wonderful messages posted on this website. I have cried time and time again for all of you tonight while reading messages of grief, as well as messages of inspiration. I have been putting off posting here because I was just unable to find the right words. Although I am positive that I will never be able to capture those words, I will try my best.
My name is Lindsay Cleeton and my mother, Sheila Cleeton, works with Josephine Luccioni, Stephanie's mother. Since the terrible events of September eleventh, I have been grief-stricken. For I may have not known anyone personally who was at the World Trade Center that day, but the thought of the families of all the lost causes me pain. Everyone who has been touched by the terrible tragedy is continuously in my prayers and forever will be.
This website is a wonderful tribute to the life of Michael. His essence has truly been captured through all of the poems and other forms of writing that have been dedicated to him. Even through the pictures, I am able to gain a sense of what a wonderful man he must have been.
My mother also comes from a very large family, for she has five sisters and three brothers, one of whom is a New York Firefighter as well. I have sixteen
cousins on her side alone. I can never know how I would have felt if I were in a situation such as yours. However, being in a large family is a wonderful gift because, as it must have become drastically clear over the past couple of months, there is always going to be someone there to support you and you them in return.
My dearest compassion, although it may not be much, goes out to the family and friends of Michael, especially his parents, brothers and sisters, and fiancée, Stephanie. You must remember that Michael is at peace now and he will be forever present in your hearts and memories. Try to recall those cherished memories to replace the terrible ones from September.
"Goodness, remembrance, and love have no end. And the Lord of life holds all who die, and all who mourn."
Lovingly,
Lindsay Cleeton
jnh83177@hotmail.com
Pelham Bay, Bronx, NY USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2001 at 22:13:06 (PDT)
To Mr. & Mrs. Lynch, Stephanie, and the entire Lynch Family,
In reading Gerry’s letter I too have know idea why I haven’t wrote in yet. I guess I held off with the hopes of some kind of miracle that Mike would be coming home safe and sound. I have been holding this letter in my pocket everyday for quiet a while and I now feel it was time that I wrote in.
What can anyone say that hasn’t been already said or written to your entire family? Let me start by expressing our deepest sympathy to all of you during this terrible time. Talking to any one of you with your strength and positive ness during this heartbreaking time makes the tragic events of September 11th a bit easier to deal with. I look at it as a cloud of smoke that has covered all the happy and fun times that we will always remember with Mike. Over time the cloud will dissipate and the only thing shining will be all the great and memorable times, including Mike’s smile.
To my friend Mike,
Though September 11, 2001 has changed all our lives forever. The friendship, the fun and the happy times will be in our hearts and minds forever. Whether it would be going on fishing trips, going to work, hanging on your boat “Give it a week” or just all the friends hanging out together. Things like that will never be forgotten. We all miss you, but you in a better place now. Your in a place where there is no hate or evil. Till we meet again, keep an eye out for us, take care of yourself.
We all love you and miss you.
Jelli
Mr. & Mrs. Michael Scarangella
Mike.Scarangella@jetblue.com
Throggs Neck/ Country Club, NY USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2001 at 12:17:15 (PDT)
I know how awful the attacks have been for your entire family. I really have nothing important to say, but I do want you to know that I think every single one of the emergency men and women are such hero's and we will never forget them. I
didn't know any of the people in NY, but my life has ever changed because of the attacks America
suffered that day.
I will always have a new respect for every firefighter I ever meet. I hope all Americans will show the same respect.
I will pray for Michael and your family..
With American Love,
Jim
JimP@regalcinemas.com
Knoxville, TN USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2001 at 09:47:17 (PDT)
Just a note to let you all know that you all have been constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I am extremely grateful for the time I spent once again in the Lynch Family kitchen after so many years have past. Hearing about the grown Michael and seeing the photos brought his life into perspective for me. My memories of Michael were of a small boy playing at home or at the beach club and always with Thomas and Colleen. My last clear memory of him was when he served as an altar boy at our wedding 18 years ago. He truly is an
extraordinary soul, who has touched lives in life and in death. Reading the messages posted here has been an emotional journey for me and I am sure for everyone else. What a wonderful tribute to his life that he is remembered by so many people and remembered in such a loving way. We all live on in the memories of others with the love we have shared during our time here on earth. Michael loved and was well loved while he was among us here on earth. His memory will live on in the hearts of those his life has touched. I know I will always remember Michael. As the Holidays approach, please take comfort in the love of the family gathered
together, your faith in God and in your love for Michael. Even after some 20 years have past since I was a constant part of the Lynch Family, I always remember my time with all of you as special childhood memories. Especially the extended family gatherings where I was welcomed and the times at Mass when the seeds of Faith my parents planted were reinforced by your Family's devotion. I am forever grateful to each and everyone of you for contributing to the person I have become.
May Michael's Memory live on in all our hearts forever.
With love and prayers,
Ann& Tom Delaney and Family
Falmore@aol.com
South Plainfield , New Jersey USA - Tuesday, November 20, 2001 at 09:59:40 (PDT)
To the Lynch family:
I have waited a long time to post a message on this board. What can I say about Mike that hasn't already been said? I don't really know, but I will give my perspective on Mike's life and my extended family the Lynch's.
I first really started hanging out with Mike in the early 80's. We shared a common bond for the love of music.
From there we quickly realized that we had so much more in common. We loved to do all of the same things. It was not hard to see that Mike would become one of my greatest
friends ever. I never looked at him as a friend, but as him and I family.
Mike was a unique character; he was fun loving, out going and an all around great person. It was his mission in life to have a good time. He never let things bother him and always had a positive outlook. He was kind and giving and never had a bad thing to say about anyone. He loved his
friends and most of all his family.
I used to break Mike's chops about being a fireman. I used to say to him:
"You have guts to run into a burning building. If there is a fire I am running out and you are the guy who is running in. I would never do that."
Mike's response: just a laugh and a smile. He loved what he did and he always said he would never trade in his job for anything else. It was his calling and he did his job well.
It is now 2 months since my brother is gone. I have good and bad days, but through it all I always come out with a smile. I just think of the happy times we had together. I think of all the dumb jokes and the crazy things we did together and it makes me smile. I know I will never see him again and that pains me, but Mike would never want that so I go on and laugh everyday because of him.
To my extended family the Lynch's. I could not have gone through this with out you. I love you. It is through your kindness and strength that I am able to move on. You are an inspiration to all. You are the kindest, strongest family I know and I am proud to know you. In my opinion they should change the definition of family with a picture of you.
I love you Mike and miss you. You will never be forgotten and your legacy will live on. You were taken too early from us.
Your friend, your brother, your partner,
John Badalati.
John Badalati
jbadalati@hotmail.com
Throgg's Neck, NY USA - Monday, November 19, 2001 at 07:35:23 (PDT)
I just wanted to write you a note after reading the information you posted about Michael. I am so sorry to hear of your suffering. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through.
My fiancé is a firefighter in the Dublin Fire Brigade and they were out in force yesterday (Sat) and Friday collecting for the
FDNY/NYPD Memorial Fund from the people of Dublin. They were on O'Connell Street, Grafton Street and in all the big shopping centres. The day after it happened (the 12th), the DFB, along with members of other Fire Brigades around the country, marched to the American Embassy to show their support to the people of New York. The bond that the DFB feel with the
FDNY is all the more acute now. We are all thinking of you and you are in our prayers.
We will never forget your good men and women who gave so much at such a cost. Never.
I hope you get word of Michael, one way or the other, soon.
Carole Cresswell
carolecresswell@hotmail.com
Dublin Eire - Sunday, November 18, 2001 at 05:08:21 (PDT)
I wish that the rest of the world could laugh and love as the Lynch's do and then there would be no need for such Terror.
you are an incredible family and I feel so lucky to know and love you. Stephanie who I do not know you have been in my thoughts and prayers since I first learned that Michael was missing. I so wish that I had a magic wand for you and could just whisk away the bad and make everything good again.
I can't do much except tell you how I ache for you and hope that one day you will again learn to laugh and love
cateb81@aol.com USA - Saturday, November 17, 2001 at 18:12:50 (PDT)
I hope you know that there are still so many people praying and keeping all of the families in thoughts and prayers. Your website is an amazing tribute to your son. I am so sorry for your loss, but know that you do have an angel looking over you!
Charlene
Boston , MA USA - Saturday, November 17, 2001 at 15:15:37 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family and Stephanie,
We just wanted to send our love, peace, and prayers on this second most difficult weekend for you since Sept. 11th. Our prayers go out to you all that you get through what should have been such a joyous weekend!
It was great seeing all of you at Conor and Siobhan's birthday party a couple weeks ago. Little Kevin definitely stole my girls' hearts as well as mine. But then again, all the kids always get along so well even though they only see each other once or twice a year. You would've thought my Tori and Kathleen's Caroline had known each other since birth! It must be that coming from such huge families, they think everyone is family!!!
Ruthie's bringing a copy of your editorial to Hank's birthday dinner
to-morrow, Jack. We're glad to hear they've backed down on the changes to the rescue effort and agreed to replace the firefighters or,at least some of them, to Ground Zero. That was much too soon to ask families to accept!
Stay strong, all of you. You're a wonderful family and Michael would be so proud of how strong you're all staying for each other and all the friends and acquaintances that knew and loved him!
God Bless,
Kate, Mike, Brigid, Tori, Shannon, and Tess Donlevie
mpd39@home.com
ocean city, nj USA - Saturday, November 17, 2001 at 08:52:14 (PDT)
To Stephanie and the entire Lynch family,
My prayers and lots of big hugs go out to all of you. I've recently learned how to pray the rosary (I just became Catholic this past Easter--the best day of my life) and have been praying the rosary for Michael and all of you using my Irish grandmother's beads.
This past weekend, I gave a talk on stewardship at all four masses at Newman Center at the University of Hawaii....and after hearing the homily four times, I was really moved by the last line of Luke's message...that he is not God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive.... All are alive to God. I found that very comforting.
I hope that's not sounding too preachy...You don't know me but I'm from Connecticut and once blew out a tire on the Cross Bronx Expressway right under a sign with a big arrow pointing to Throggs Neck...and a trucker (a Black man) who was waiting for a replacement driver got out of his rig and changed the tire in minutes...and that's the closest I've ever been to Throggs Neck. You all make it sound like a great place to live.
Thank you for sharing your love for Michael, your love for each other and your strong faith.
Aloha.
Love, Carolina Re
godinallthings@yahoo.com
Honolulu, Hawaii USA - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 23:12:40 (PDT)
Dear Kathleen, Jack, Stephanie and all,
You're all in my thoughts and heart more than ever today, which should have been such a joyous
occasion. I'm sure that your strength and love for each other will get you through, as they have been doing, but how we all wish that things were as they should have been. As I hope that you know, you have our deepest sympathy. Love, Linda and Tom
lohlerbaker@hotmail.com
lebanon, nj USA - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 12:21:26 (PDT)
To The Lynch Family, Stephanie, and Friends:
For some reason or another, I have been putting off posting a message on this site, though I have made a point to read each an every new submission first thing each morning. The outpouring of love has been amazing. Perhaps my own delay in writing was because I had refused for so long to give up hope for Michael's rescue. Perhaps it was
because it is very difficult to put into words how special a person Michael was. More than likely, it was
because I did not want to sound as if I was saying "Goodbye" to one of the greatest guys I have ever had the pleasure of calling "my friend". Though I am still not ready to say "Goodbye", I figured it was time I wrote.
Anyone who had the good fortune of spending time with Michael can attest to the wit and good humor which he embodied. He loved to laugh and, more importantly, loved to make others laugh ... a job he always seemed to accomplish with ease. Whether he was telling the joke of the week he learned at the Firehouse, or singing his famous "Cheese Song" (where he replaced the lyrics of an Italian song with the names of different Italian cheeses and food items), you could count on it being followed by his patented combination squint/nose-crinkle/giggle. It never failed to put a smile on your face (even when the joke wasn't that funny).
Michael's love of laughter was matched only by his love for Stephanie. One only needed to see them dance together, with their little Fred Astaire/Ginger Rogers routine, to see how well they clicked, and how truly made for each other they were. The sense of loss she must feel at this time seems almost incomprehensible to me, yet to my continual amazement, she has remained strong. Her strength is a testament to the loved she shared with Mike ... a bond so strong that she can take comfort in simply having had the opportunity to love and be loved by a person as great a Mike, a true hero.
For many years, my life was intertwined with Michael's on many levels. Whether it was on the little league field, soccer field, softball fields, golf courses, the bars, working at Tardi's (Villa Barone), or just hanging out in Silver Beach, Mike seemed to be forever present. While we always considered each other friends, during the past two years, I was fortunate enough to get to know Michael much better. The friendship which Debbie and I developed with Mike will be forever cherished. He stood up as a member of our bridal party on our wedding day, and Deb and I were looking forward to taking part in his marriage to Stephanie on this very day. As I watch him in our
wedding video, larger than life, it is hard to come to terms with the fact that we will not get that chance.
Having also lost two more long time friends to this tragedy, Dennis Mulligan and John Galagher, I was overcome by feelings of shock, anger and sadness. Thrust into an ugly new world by this act of cowardice, I, like so many others, turned to my friends for support. In an area like Throgg's Neck, and with a group of friends like we have, receiving such support was no surprise. The surprising part was that one of the strongest sources of that support was the Lynch Family themselves. While we arrived at their home with the intent of showing our support and love in their time of need, each one of our friends would agree that it was the Lynch family who wound up being there for us! Jack, Kathleen, Stephanie ... the entire family was so strong, positive and
optimistic, I don't think they realize how much they helped each and every one of Michael's friends who showed up at their home. The love and support system within your family is amazing. Upon reflection though, I guess I should not have been so surprised. For years you have opened your home to all of Michael's
friends after midnight mass on Christmas Eve, cooking breakfast for all who came. The fiber of your family was as evident then as it is now.
I truly wish that there were words which I could say that would provide comfort to each of you ... something to take the pain away. I know there is none to relay which has not already been said. Yes, Michael is in a better place, and Yes, Michael proved himself a true hero by his acts of selflessness on 9/11/01, but does that help stop our tears and heartache? If it doesn't, perhaps we should consider this ...
Michael, with all of his admirable and amusing traits, was a gift. By the grace of God, we were allowed to meet and spend time with Michael, and become affected by the person that he was. Though we
grieve at the loss of Michael, and the fact that our gift was taken from us so early, our sorrow should be for those who were not fortunate enough to have ever met Michael. They truly missed out on a good thing. Though Michael may be gone, he lives on in each an every one of us who knew him. His presence is clearly visible just by looking at his friends .... the way we joke with each other, the way we interact with each other, it is clear that we were influenced by his infectious sense of humor and wit. Recognizing that, and knowing where it comes from, gives me some small comfort. It reminds me of my friend, and assures me he will not be forgotten.
To the Lynch family and Stephanie, I again extend my deepest sympathy and well wishes during these trying times ... and to Michael, my friend, I look forward to the day when we meet again on the other side, and you greet me with that patented smile. Until that day, you will remain in my thoughts.
Missing your greatly, your friend,
Gerry
gcrowe@loa.com
Bronx, , NY USA - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 10:13:24 (PDT)
Dear Jack & Kathleen: Thinking of you still, just want you to know. Jack your newspaper pieces were/are so precisely,
unabashedly, right to the point-the point as it should be. We out here were initially unaware of the extremes to which the rescue efforts had been curtailed. Is their any form of petition, any person(s) who can be contacted by us individually and us en masse to express our vehement disagreement with this plan? The insult to injury to you and your family and to all the heroes of that day is mind-boggling. The clarity you so lucidly wrote with, amid the anger and disappointment you must have been feeling were, once again, inspiring.
I was privileged recently to sing "God Bless America", at a fundraising party, during a moment of silence to remember the victims and heroes of Sept. 11th. I introduced it briefly with reference and reverence to you and your family and Michael. It was less an anthem than a prayer-please God, bless America, and please God, bless you good people, Jack, Kathleen, all your children, and Stephanie.
tstein@ucla.edu USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 21:51:13 (PDT)
John / Kathleen...I heard about your brother only recently from a fellow
Spellman-ite. Although I didn't know Michael - he would have been just a
young boy back in those days (24 years ago?)- I am truly heartbroken for
your loss and for your family. Words cannot do justice for the loss you
have suffered. Just know - and it is obvious from the expressions of
sympathy and grief on this page - that the whole world grieves with you.
God Bless You.
fls81@aol.com
New Milford, CT USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 11:55:30 (PDT)
Michael,
As I sit here, I gaze upon a photo of you with my daughter, your niece Caitlin. We have made it our wallpaper for our computer. As if that would be able to fill the void that we fell since we lost you. I have cried, I have begged for you return, unharmed. I have pleaded for your life o be spared, and myself to have gone. I pray that, because I have know
true love, I have had children, all the wonderful gifts that you and Stephanie have been cheated of. You had so much to live for. You had the love of a woman, yet not only her love but her
devotion to you. Stephanie loved you beyond any human recognition. And now, she faces the day that was meant to mean your eternity together, alone. I know you Michael, you would not let this happen unless you had no control. Oh how I miss you. I want to see you again, to embrace you again. I want to see the love in your eyes when you see Stephanie enter a room. I want to see that light in your eyes.
Oh Michael, we pray for you, we pray that you went quickly, we pray that your suffering was short, for you Michael, didn't deserve to suffer. My thought of you are the happy smiles upon your face as you did the hand jive at our brother Thomas' wedding, and the happiness you showed as you toasted him and his new bride. All the time that you would be next, Thomas as your best man, as you pledged your love to Stephanie on Nov 16th. We will not forget your
intentions Michael, that you wanted to make Stephanie your wife. That she was and forever will be the love your life. Forever in my heart you and Stephanie are joined together. I promise you today Michael, I will make sure that your love for Stephanie endures.
I love you my brother. I miss you, and will forever honor you.
With all my love
Colleen
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2001 at 20:45:06 (PDT)
P.S. I'm really sorry about Michael!
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
punkker_Jen@hotmail.com
West Covina, CA USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2001 at 17:33:52 (PDT)
Dear Lynch family,
I have hope in Michael! I know this sounds stupid and everything but God Bless You! Also everyone that reads this God Bless You all too!
Always Your Friend,
Jennifer
punkker_Jen@hotmail.com
West Covina, CA USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2001 at 17:30:56 (PDT)
As many have said, our hearts and prayers are with all of you. However, I know no words can take away the pain you all feel inside. May your whole family remain strong, and stick together through this ordeal. God Bless all of you!
glog7@aol.com
Hernando, MS USA - Sunday, November 11, 2001 at 17:46:46 (PDT)
Each day we pray that God will comfort you in your sorrow. Words can not convey how much we grieve for you. Love from the Henry family
Rushhill@frontiernet.net
Monroe, N.Y. USA - Sunday, November 11, 2001 at 16:55:20 (PDT)
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Lynch
I am a friend of Colleen. I also come from a Catholic family of 10. We are all praying for your son
Michael. I am so truly sorry to hear of the tragedy that your hole family has to endure. Colleen is a great friend and is so brave during this time. Being so far away from home isn't easy on her but she is such a brave and inspirational person. I love her very much and her family. My prayers are with you and the whole Lynch family.
Sincerely, Sharon Ann Simmons
simmie@fuse.net
Cincinnati, , OH USA - Thursday, November 08, 2001 at 19:51:36 (PDT)
Mr. & Mrs. Lynch, Stephanie and the entire Lynch family,
Our heart and prayers are with all of you. We also wanted to commend Mr. Lynch on his Daily News
editorial. Well done.
mikeybrod@msn.com
New Fairfield, CT USA - Thursday, November 08, 2001 at 09:49:18 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family...
As a former student and teacher at Cardinal Spellman High School, I have known many members of the Lynch family over the years. And I knew Michael. I can't pretend to know what you're feeling, but I do feel the collective grief that our country is suffering. Michael and all of you made the ultimate sacrifice so that others might be able to live safely. Your loss is great, but his willingness to make that sacrifice is the best memorial I can imagine...both to him, and to the character of your family.
God bless you and Michael always.
sdipo@aol.com
Bronx, NY USA - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 19:31:12 (PDT)
Hi Kathleen, Jack and All of the Lynch/McCarrick Clan,
One night last week I stayed up late to watch one of those great Yankee
late inning wins. I read as the CH 5 News came on and was not paying too much
attention until I heard the name Lynch mentioned. I then watched that segment
where you, Jack, were the primary spokesman for the family and for Michael,
while the camera picked up several of the other family members and Michaels
bride to be. All of you looked wonderful and your comments were excellent.
Then on Saturday across the bottom of pages 2 and 3 of the Daily News
and again in today's (Nov 7th) News on the op ed page, I read articles
either about you or by you, Jack, concerning your thoughts on the possible
recovery of Michael's body. The thoughts and feelings you expressed
were both poignant and inspiring. Thank you for saying so well what many
people are feeling at this time.
Throughout this period of trial, grief and suffering, both of you
Kathleen and Jack, as well as all of your stellar family, have been the
finest of examples to many as to how a loving, believing people should
respond and living proof to us as to your relationship with your God.
I am so proud to say I know you and am related to you. Please know
you will always be in the prayers of the entire Quinn clan and if there
is any thing you can think of whereby we can be of any kind of assistance,
do us the honor of calling. May God Bless you always, Love Bill and Lynn
quinndom@gateway.net
Brightwaters, New York USA - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 11:18:11 (PDT)
My friend Christina Abbatiello was inspired to write the following poem after her friend, Shelly, told her about a dream that she had the previous night. In the dream, she saw Christina's mother, Pat, walking hand in and with Michael. Pat mom died 9 years ago as a result of cancer and is still very present in everyone's lives. Although Pat never met Michael, she would
definitely help anyone in need, especially anyone who is as loved in the neighborhood as Michael.
Although she never met him
And their lives had never crossed
Her heart broke into pieces
For his life that he had lost
For she knew he died a hero
A young man with so much ahead
The pain inflicted upon his loved ones
And a reality that they dread
For she also loved a few
Who had loved him just as much
And when he entered God's Kingdom
She approached him with a touch
Gently from her hand
She took his hand in hers
And both knew from that moment
There would be no longer tears
But she knew she had to mentor him
And make sure he found his way
For she had once had her own children
In which she'd hope to see again some day
And so she took this child
Of a another woman she didn't know
And under her wing she placed him
Gently so she could show
Him all the wonders of heaven
And the goodness of God's light
And their bond began to form
From that moment of that night
So although your heart is breaking
And crying out in pain
And you feel that your attempts to heal yourself
Have all been done in vein
Know that your Michael is in heaven
And embracing all of God's charms
And also know that he is comforted
Being held within my mother's arms
-Christina Abbatiello
For Michael Lynch - inspired by Shelly's dream of Michael and mommy walking hand in hand
11/5/01
sheilaface@hotmail.com
Bronx, NY USA - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 11:02:12 (PDT)
Dear Jack & Kathleen
Please know that you and Michael and all your family are in our prayers each and every day. We can only take comfort in knowing that, without a doubt, Michael is in the presence of God Almighty and all the saints and that you will be with him again.
God bless you all.
John & Roberta Palmer
john.palmer@reliancenational.com OR jpalmer291@aol.com
East Hanover , New Jersey USA - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 10:01:31 (PDT)
As many others in the guest book, I never had the opportunity to meet Michael in person, we have come to meet in a different manner. First of all I am a 29-year-old male that lives in Virginia. I am a trained firefighter and a qualified EMT. I have been doing this work on a volunteer basis for a couple of years now. I do this work because I love “helping others”, and I’m sure Mike was the same way. My wife went to a craft show this weekend and purchased me a
FDNY hat. These have became popular in the area. On the back of each hat it has the name of a missing firefighter from the Sept 11 tragedy. On the back of my hat it has: In Memory Of FF Lynch. Upon receiving this hat I was then curious about the firefighter who was missing, so I have done some research and found out all about Michael. After reading about him on the site, it sounds as if he truly was a great person, loved by his friends and family. My prayers are with you all!
I would like all of you to know that I am honored to have Michael Lynch on my hat and I’ll wear it proudly. I pray for him, his family, fiancée, friends, and others every time I wear the hat. It is a shame what America and Ya’ll have been through, but this is a prime example of how these times can bring us closer together. Michael is an inspiration to me in my work, as responding to emergencies are not the same these days, nothing should ever be taken for granite.... Everyone hang in there, I’m not sure what else to say, as words are hard to put out from feelings. GOD BLESS YOU ALL and GOD BLESS MICHAEL. Sincerely Doug Kirchoff
djkirchoff@erols.com
Prince George, Va USA - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 22:03:28 (PDT)
My family and I are so sorry for your loss. We have been praying for you.
tqfatboymd@aol.com
Massapequa Park, NY USA - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 21:00:23 (PDT)
To the Lynch Family,
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you daily since the tragedy
of September 11th. We hope that your loving memories of Michael along
with the support of family and friends will help you throughout this
difficult time.
With Love and Sympathy,
Rich and Roberta Montalbano
Rmontalb@optonline.net
Huntington USA - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 18:38:00 (PDT)
The site is really beautiful and is a fantastic tribute to a very brave man. I am sure you must be very proud of him and all his fallen friends. We were all so proud of the firefighters here when we heard all the Irish names, we feel like they are part of our family who are scattered to the four corners. May God bless his gentle soul and may he rest in peace. Slan agus beannacht. Marie ATHENRY
mariegi@eircom.net
Galway Ireland Ireland - Monday, November 05, 2001 at 14:30:50 (PDT)
Our love and prayers for all those who have lost their lives and their families.
dandehorn@home.com
Pueblo, CO USA - Monday, November 05, 2001 at 08:01:38 (PDT)
Our prayers and best wishes are with you.
kenb2@aol.com
Littleton, CO USA - Monday, November 05, 2001 at 07:38:34 (PDT)
my thoughts and prayers to you your family, and friends. the world will forever
will be changed. may your thoughts be of good memories that you will
have for the rest of your days. remember that they are never gone you have
a piece of them with you always.
13pookie@home.com
south
Brunswick, nj USA - Sunday, November 04, 2001 at 18:36:38 (PDT)
I lost a longtime friend in Tower One on 9/11. My sympathies to all families and friends who lost loved ones on that horrible day.
San Francisco, CA USA - Sunday, November 04, 2001 at 18:17:36 (PDT)
Dear Kathleen & Jack,
Kathleen and I have prayed for your family during this time of sorrow. We pray for Mike and his family and ask God's help.
From -
Kathleen & Joe Reilly
jrnitlypl@aol.com
Staten Island, NYC USA - Saturday, November 03, 2001 at 18:56:24 (PDT)
We are so sorry. God Bless you all
Portland, Oregon USA - Saturday, November 03, 2001 at 15:43:17 (PDT)
To the terrific Lynch family,
I want to take a moment to sincerely express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved son, brother, and uncle, Michael. Not a single day passes that I do not say a prayer, think of you, or share in your grief. Eight years ago, your wonderful daughter, Colleen, married my incredible brother, Jason. Growing up in a small family, I never had the experience of having a sister. Colleen, I could not have picked a more wonderful sister-in-law, and could not have
foreseen knowing such a terrific family.
Michael was a delightful, funny, polite, and wonderful young man. His bravery will never be forgotten and his spirit will always be alive. I am so happy I was able to spend those precious few moments of his lifetime during family get
togethers, and wish I had the opportunity to know him more than I did.
I would give anything to take away your grief and I want you to know, I am so very sorry.
With Love,
Tammy
trcollier@yahoo.com
Bayside, NY USA - Saturday, November 03, 2001 at 13:55:29 (PDT)
We are so sorry for you & the other families. God Bless Michael & the other heroes & victims.
, Vt USA - Saturday, November 03, 2001 at 03:56:01 (PDT)
Mike was a coworker at Dean Witter
luru122@optonline.net
Edison, NJ USA - Saturday, November 03, 2001 at 03:19:15 (PDT)
On this the feast of All Souls,
our thoughts are with Michael and
all who were lost on 9/11.
Their families and friends will
always be in our hearts and prayers.
Sincerely,
The Cotter Family
momcotter@yahoo.com
East Rockaway, NY USA - Friday, November 02, 2001 at 08:42:32 (PDT)
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I will never forget what I saw on
September the 11th neither will the rest of the world. On the news it is just statistics but when you read a story like yours you begin to understand the real human
tragedy. I hope that one day your hope will pay off and you are given the chance to say goodbye to your son and I hope he did not die in vain that an atrocity like this is never allowed happen
again. Ireland was appalled by what happened and our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Yours sincerely,
nicola collins.
toiletduck1@hotmail.com
Dublin Ireland - Friday, November 02, 2001 at 07:03:39 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family,
My name is Sinead Holden and I am Eileen Lynch and John Newconb's baby-sitter. I have known them for many years and Eileen has told me so much about her family-I feel like I am part of it. Well she told me about Michael and his brothers and sisters and parents and how much she loves to spend time with all of you.
I write you this e-mail with my deepest condolences. I have prayed for you and your family ever since I found out Michael was missing. I only recently found out that he was supposed to be married this month and I am deeply sorry for his family and his
fiancée. I also write this to you to let all of you know that if there is anything, anything at all that I can do I will. I have many years of baby-sitting experience and offer that up to all of you.
The only nice thing that comes to mind to me for your family is that it is really nice to know that you have someone in heaven on your side. I believe that Michael is a beautiful angel who is looking down on his whole family and will continue to do so until one day you can all meet again.
God Bless You All and may Michael memory be kept alive forever!!!
Sincerely Yours,
Sinead Holden
sinead42779@aol.com
Mahopac, New York USA - Thursday, November 01, 2001 at 18:29:42 (PDT)
To: Kathleen, Jack , Michael’s” Brothers, and Sisters, the Lynch and McCarrick families:
“In our life there is a single color it is the color of love.”
“Treasure each other and the simple gift of love”
“God gave us memories so that we may have roses in December”
It has been very difficult for me to find the words to say how I feel about Michael and all of you. Your strength and love for each other in this time of adversity is truly a model for others. I want you all to know that you are all part of what makes Michael the wonderful, happy, caring person he is, you have also given him the love for life. We love each and every one of you very much and wish that we could take some of your pain away. My hope is that as time passes the hurt will lessen as you remember all that Michael has given to everyone who’s life he has touched.
May God Bless and keep you close to his heart
Michael’s Mother-in law Josephine and George
Joseohine Luccioni
luccioni@aecom.yu.edu USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 14:18:27 (PDT)
I am deeply sorry for what has occurred. I knew Michael in college, through mutual friends of Kenny and Cathy O'Donnell in Throggs Neck. Michael always had a terrific sense of humor. My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to Stephanie and the entire Lynch family.
Clflower98@aol.com, NY USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 13:45:51 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family--
I have kept you in my prayers since I heard that your son was among the missing, and I will continue to keep your family in my prayers. Tender is the heart that loves someone who is precious.
God Bless You,
Donna
Donnabright21@yahoo.com
Temple City, CA USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 12:59:21 (PDT)
I want you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this tragic time.
kiannotti@glog.com
Seymour, CT USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 09:36:48 (PDT)
I didn't know your son personally but I know people who knew him and I saw him in local places throughout Throggs Neck. My heart goes out to your entire family.
My daughter's 19 year old friend lost his only parent - his mom in this tragedy and he's now an orphan. Some how we will pull through this though it seems impossible at this time.
Your family will be in my thoughts.
Sincerely,
Patti Chucka (formerly Damm of Throggs Neck)
Patti.Chucka@Avon.com
Bronx, New York USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 07:38:49 (PDT)
My heart is with you during this most difficult time and journey you and yours will embark on thru God's Eternal Promise Of Love For Each Of You. May it help you to know that
though I'm a total stranger who has never communicated with you prior to now, I am a parent who will pray for the safe and speedy return of your Michael.
GodSpeed..
Regards
Susan Sherrill
Penned this day
October 31, 2001
kissfmvoice@rocket2mars.com
Myrtle Beach, SC. USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 22:29:39 (PDT)
I'm so sorry to hear about Michael. I'm a cousin of Matt Hohl and had many happy times out with Michael and the gang in Throggs Neck. My prayers are with you.
-Mark
motoole@globalfrontiers.com
New York, NY USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 13:14:30 (PDT)
we are keeping you all in our prayers at this difficult time.
God Bless you all.
kevin&josephine Gildea and family
louise_gildea@hotmail.com
sligo, sligo
Ireland - Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 06:21:53 (PDT)
Dear Maureen.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you ever need anything please call. After all you have done for Taylor it is the least we can do. You are a very special person and we love you very much.
Clark, Lucia, Taylor & Anthony
www.raph11@aol.com
watchung, nj USA - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 17:47:48 (PDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this awful time. Hold on to all the wonderful memories you have of Michael. He is a true hero.
Sue and Denny Marchalonis
sue217@juno.com
Fanwood, NJ USA - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 15:44:45 (PDT)
I am one of the few people who did not know anyone personally,
but I sometimes feel like I knew all of them. I work with David Dougherty
and he told us about Michael and gave me the web site address. We can only
pray for everyone's family, especially the children. We know justice will
be done, however long it takes. We stand tall and proud as Americans.
We shall be triumphant. There are now thousands more looking down,
protecting those who are now risking their lives for the lives that were
lost. May the Lord keep everyone in his sight. We do not stand for hate,
we stand for Freedom!!
God Bless.
Kathy Bonitz
kmbonitz@yahoo.com
Pleasanton, CA USA - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 14:52:25 (PDT)
I am one of the few people who did not know anyone personally,
but I sometimes feel like I knew all of them. I work with David Dougherty
and he told us about Michael and gave me the web site address. We can only
pray for everyone's family, especially the children. We know justice will
be done, however long it takes. We stand tall and proud as Americans.
We shall be triumphant. There are now thousands more looking down,
protecting those who are now risking their lives for the lives that were
lost. May the Lord keep everyone in his sight. We do not stand for hate,
we stand for Freedom!!
God Bless.
Kathy Bonitz
kmbonitz@yahoo.com
Pleasanton, CA USA - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 14:53:09 (PDT)
Dear Kevin, I am very sorry on Michael's loss..... Remember how you spoke to us at the St. John's 2000 campaign.....you always spoke so highly of your family and how it influenced your own choice of career. I will remember him in our prayers. Sincerely, Dede Danaher
Dedeharp@aol.com
Hillsdale, NJ USA - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 09:20:03 (PDT)
Dear Jack, Kathleen and family, As time drags on and on, our thoughts and
prayers continue to be with you and Michael, also with the people who lost
love ones on that awful day last September. As we watch America weep for
her lost sons and daughters, lines from a Lament written c1916 by Irish
poet Francis Ledwidge continue to come to mind. They read:
I heard the Poor Old Woman say:
"At break of day the fowler came.
And took my blackbirds from their songs
Who loved me well thro' shame and blame.
No more from lovely distances
Their songs shall bless me mile by mile,
Nor to white Ashbourne call me down
To wear my crown another while.
But in the lonely hush of eve
Weeping I grieve the silent bills,
From the far dawn shall there come blackbirds
Loud with love, sweet echoes of the singers gone".
"MAY THE LORD BLESS THE LYNCH FAMILY" All our Love, Violet & Gerard McCarrick
mccarrik@indigo.ie
Dublin, Bhaile Atha Cliath Eire (Ireland) - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 13:34:36 (PDT)
Only our hearts know the pain you are experiencing because our mind has shut down from the scope of your personal loss. We do not know Michael Lynch the brother, friend, and lover but we do know the Hero that he has become and that he will always be in our American History. We post this note to the Lynch Family with love, prayer and big tears.
Forever touched.
GOD BLESS AMERICA
Will & Patrick
Will Cudequest and Patrick Dean
OneGoodAlibi@aol.com
Owings Mills, MD USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 11:34:27 (PDT)
Hello :) I hope that all your family is doing better and full of love.
well I only wanted to say that I love the way you remember your love one and to wish you all the best.
I'm a volunteer with the Red Cross and I have been working there and it is a bad site to be in but with the help of our lord everything will be back to be the way it used to and even better.
all my love to your family and my prayers too.
be well.
osman
o_m@onebox.com
Bronx, NY USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 09:57:22 (PDT)
God Bless Uncle Michael and keep him safe in the palm of Your hand.
Love Liam
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 06:52:40 (PDT)
Dear Uncle Michael,
I love you and I miss you. I liked going to your firehouse, you helped me slide down the pole. I miss you everyday with all my heart.
Love Caitlin
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 06:47:47 (PDT)
Dear Uncle Michael
I liked going to your firehouse. It is one of my favorite memories of you. I will never forget you. I love you.
Love Justin
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 06:43:51 (PDT)
Our Dear Michael,
Here it is nearly the end of October and yet to all of us it is still Sept. 11th. So many days have passed, so many long hours, but yet we all wait. We wait for your return and though we are so sad, you continue to bless us and make us laugh with delight as we recall all your hysterical
antics, impressions and jokes. Though now we recall them with laughter, and with tears.
I know that you knew how loved you were Michael, you were an angel long before Sept. 11th. You were
deliberately given to our family, so that you could always help us see the joy of life. However your life was too short, you had so many more jokes to tell and so much more love to give. I think we all wish we had more time to be able to tell you how fond we all were of you. I wish that I could see your beautiful smile one more time, hear your infectious laugh
again, so that you could always help us see the joy of life. However your life was too short, you had so many more jokes to tell and so much more love to give. I think we all wish we had more time to be able to tell you how fond we all were of you. I wish that I could see your beautiful smile one more time, hear your infectious laugh again, and see your love of Stephanie in your eyes again, just one more time.
Although we will all go on and time will begin to heal us, or at least help us to carry on, there will always be a hole
in my heart. I miss you Michael. I am sorry that we didn't have more time.
I love you.
Your sister, Colleen
jcparigen@zoomtown.com
Fairfield, OH USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 06:33:17 (PDT)
Michael,
You should be here to see how amazing your immediate family is in this unbelievably trying situation. You knew how amazing Stephanie is and she continues to be the incredible, strong, deeply caring, candid spitfire you love so much. She and the rest of your family (including me) are struggling to deal with your being taken from them but they are also resolved to focus on love and light - to not let the darkness of fear, anger or despair overcome them. I am so proud of each and every one of them. They are trying - through these hellacious weeks of waiting and hoping for some recovery - to be good to each other, to be true to the reality of this moment, to be true to what you would have wanted. It's not always easy. Everybody misses you differently, mourns you differently and is hurting now differently. But it is in unity and love with each other, with your friends, your firefighting brothers, your family throughout the world, and the world family who has reached out to your memory, that they continue to honor you. We miss you, Michael. You would have made us laugh at some absurd moments these past weeks. I feel and see you in your Mother's sideways laugh, your Father's fun expressions, in each of your siblings, in our wonderful Stephanie, in that damn black squirrel outside 2911, in the twinkling stars, in the gentle wind, in the feeling of warmth when I come home to Rudy and the kids, in the joy over the Yankees, in your nephew Andrew's face, in Caroline and Christopher's humor, in the playful pranks of 8 year olds, 28 year olds and 68 year olds, and in the simple delight of being grateful for another day of life. I feel as if some of your essence, of your goodness whirled up into a magic spiral on
September 11th high above New York City and fell like stardust on many people and places working into their hearts and souls so that through them you continue to live with us, among us. Beat in our hearts, Michael. I love you. Mary
mlync@mail.als.edu
Big Toad way, Upstate ny USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 22:48:36 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family & Stephanie -
I cannot say that I knew Michael but I did know of him. For many years we hung out at the same "establishments" and most recently he played dart against my husband. I pass Lasting Impressions almost everyday and see the
memorial made for your loved one. And with each time I pass I say a prayer for him and for all of you.
I truly believe that those who have done before us will watch over us and God will not keep Michael apart from you forever. He will always be in your hearts as you are in his.
I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss but know that you are in my thoughts.
Angela
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Bronx, NY USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 19:06:09 (PDT)
To all The Lynchs & Stephanie,
I first met Mike about 8 years ago, through our son PJ Curry, on a St. Patricks Day, he was your typical Irishman, handsome, friendly and probably the funniest young man I had ever met. Through the years each time myself and my husband Tom (retired FDNY), ran into Mike he always had a quick smile and of course a good joke. When we met Stephanie, a few years later, they were a beautiful and happy couple, and this would always bring a smile to our faces.
When we heard that Mike was one of the FDNY missing, we cried for Mr. & Mrs. Lynch as Mikes parents, we grieved for all Mikes brothers and sisters, we mourned for Stephanie, his future wife.
We know each time we see Stephanie and Mikes many, many friends, we will always remember Mike Lynch, our lives have changed, there will always, always, be a piece of our hearts holding Mike near and dear to us.
God Bless you and be with you, Mr. & Mrs Lynch, Lynch brothers and sisters and Stephanie - STAY STRONG - MIRACLES DO HAPPEN!!! I know this is what we believe,
Thank you for your brave son.
Love,
Joan & Tom Laughlin
Hatting Place/Locust Point
Ethel828@aol.com
Throggs Neck, Bronx, New York USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 18:02:31 (PDT)
My prayers are with you and your hole family. My church I go to is Latonia
Christian Church we have your family and other missing family member and those who
survivor or who is hurt in our prayers and heart God Blesses you and my prayers are with you and everyone
Love Tonya Marie' Wallace
Age 20
Sunday School Teacher
abby_41015_41015@yahoo.com
Latonia, Kentucky USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 15:15:19 (PDT)
My prayers are with you and your hole family.
abby_41015_41015@yahoo.com
Latonia, Kentucky USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 15:10:38 (PDT)
GOD MAKE ME BRAVE!
LET ME STRENGTHEN AFTER PAIN-
AS A TREE STRENGTHENS AFTER RAIN-
SHINING AND LOVELY AGAIN.
AS BLOWN GRASS LIFTS
LET ME RISE FROM SORROW WITH QUIET EYES,
KNOWING YOUR WAY IS WISE.
GOD MAKE ME BRAVE!
LIFE BRINGS SUCH BLINDING AND HORRIFIC THINGS-
LET ME TAKE WINGS
AND SOAR
UNTIL EARTH'S SMOG AND PAIN NO MORE
CAN CLOUD MY VIEW OF YOU!!!
THE PRAYERS OF THE DA. BEACH CLUB AND BOB AND MYSELF ARE WITH YOU!!
WE THANK -YOU FOR LETTING US ENJOY MIKE'S MANY TALENTS!!!
MAUREEN ZEISS [PRESIDENT OF THE D.A. BEACH CLUB]BRONX NY
CHETLIX@AOL.COM
NEW CITY , NY. USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 14:09:00 (PDT)
To the Lynch family
Mike was a good friend of mine, who I miss. I am proud to say mike was my friend . I am truly sorry for your loss , mike will never be
forgotten . I played on mike's softball team for the last seven year's. Mike is one of the bravest person's I know . To the Lynch's keep your sprits up there are happier times ahead for everyone , my prayers are with you .
Yours truly
P.J. Curry
curry540@cs.com
bronx, new york USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 10:23:00 (PDT)
I first heard of Michael through my sister, Sue Carr, who works with Patrick. Since that time, Michael and the entire Lynch family have been in my prayers.
I can only imagine the pain you are feeling over the loss of Michael's presence in your daily lives. But God gives us a wonderful gift called faith which assures us that Michael is at peace in Heaven. You will someday be reunited.
Following September 11 - that horrendous day that changed all our lives - my 23 year-old son, Bob, has decided to join the Marines. He will begin his basic training on November 5. Please pray for Bob as he joins our other servicemen who are working to rid our world of the evil forces that surround us.
You will remain in my prayers. Sandi Tuttle
stuttle@mercydesmoines.org
Des Moines, Iowa USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 06:55:52 (PDT)
Michael, Your spirit is in heaven. But we miss you. Brigid
maryrudy@capital.net
Poestenkill, NY USA - Wednesday, October 24, 2001 at 18:22:52 (PDT)
I'm just an average n.y.c. citizen who wants to commend all FDNY, missing and alive, how proud we are of you , the bravest. Not a day goes by when I don't think of these brave men, and all innocent lost souls of 9/11. I pray for missing to be found. May God Be with you and your family in prayers/thoughts of Michael and all FDNY brothers. With heartfelt wishes, Jeanne
JSeren8@hotmail.com
New York, New York USA - Wednesday, October 24, 2001 at 09:58:33 (PDT)
This is one of the most beautiful and touching websites that I have ever had the honor of reading. I am a Religion teacher in New Rochelle and I recently incorporated your touching letter into one of my classes. It helped my class and I get a better perspective, and grasp the realism and scope of this horrible atrocity.
Your words expressed that the will of God will never take you beyond what we can endure. Your family has suffered more than any of us could imagine, yet you compliment the efforts that all of our brave heroes have put forth. It was truly one of the most selfless letters that have, or could have been written. Sometimes it is hard to explain intangible things such as faith and hope to our young people, but your words made them see and feel things that all the teaching materials in the world could never do.
Thank you for all that you have done for my class and myself. Our prayers are with you and your loved ones. "We pray that God will help us rebuild our broken lives and mend our broken hearts. We pray that he will give us the courage to face evil and the faith to believe that good will never be defeated".
spot917@aol.com
New Rochelle, New York USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 19:52:15 (PDT)
My prayers are with the Lynch family and all the other families affected by this tragedy. Michael may not be here in the flesh, but he is here in spirit and will always be a part of his family and friends. God Bless
RitzB@aol.com
Los Angeles, CA USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 14:38:18 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family,
I was very moved with your website. I have a friend who went to school with Michael as a child. She received the website and forwarded to me because we have spoken about Michael and all the other people who were, unfortunately there.
I know we don't know each other, but I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I've cried with you and hurt with you, but I can't imagine the pain you must feel. I've often thought to myself since it happened, "How do families get on with their lives?" I still don't know how that can happen, but after reading your website, you have given me some inspiration that it is a slow process. I know it has to be hard for you and your family. It's such a hard thing to digest that this inconceivable act happened, but it must be even harder to have lost a close family member to this terrible act.
Please stay strong. And thank you for the website. I brought tears to my eyes. I have sent it to people that I know so that Michael will live on forever.
With Warm Regards,
Vera Carello
VMonaco981@aol.om
New Rochelle, New York USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 14:05:03 (PDT)
Kathleen, Jack, Stephanie, Family and all who grieve for Michael,
These are thoughts selected from a book written by Fr John Mc Cullagh from Co Tyrone. We first read the book after the Omagh bomb. We hope these thoughts will be of some comfort to you.
We have changed some of the search original words to make it more personal to you and to Michael. We are conscious that the search for Michael must continue, so the first few lines are inappropriate at present. However we feel that they are important as a lead into the comforting words which follow.
Do not search for me down among marbled headstones
Where birds on November branches make gathering cry for the dying year.
Do not look for me where Summer leaves
Decay on graves of Winter grass.
I am not here.
But -
See that shaft of sunlight
Which spots the grey dark waters
Of late November along Silver Beach.
Or listen to the songbirds
Squeeze out the last notes of there sunny summer song.
Or hear the laughter
I splashed on my loved ones faces,
On the sun drenched beach that summer before I left you.
Imagine me as you last saw me - Vibrant and Loving.
Remember -
I am here, very near to you
All is well
Nothing is past
I am but waiting for you
We will be together as it was before - only better.
Speak to me
Smile with me
Pray for me
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we shared together.
I will go on living, not where
Winter withers,
But where spring
Is Eternal
Listen to the voices of yesterday and gather strength from the memory of Michaels love and friendship. You are with us always in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Love
Omagh N Ireland - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 13:50:12 (PDT)
May God ease your sorrow and life up your loved one. All of America shares your sorrow. FDNY and NYPD are all
heroes. From a brother police officer
websplace@adelphia.net
Glendora, Ca USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 13:49:56 (PDT)
Our hopes and prayers are with you. Aunt Helen is my mother's Sister In Law in Illinois. We also have a large family. (8 brothers and sisters). Family is precious.
Love,
Jane
DDurment@aol.com
Racine, Wi USA - Monday, October 22, 2001 at 21:52:25 (PDT)
MIKE, I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON AND FRIEND.
I THINK ABOUT ALL THE FUN TIMES WE HAD. YOU ARE THE FIRST FRIEND THAT
WE SEE IN MY WEDDING VIDEO. YOU HAVE A HUGE GRIN ON YOUR FACE AND YOU
ARE GIVING ME A THUMBS UP. I AM SITTING HERE LAUGHING ABOUT THE TIME
YOU TOOK MATTY'S CAR UP IN EAST DURHAM AND WHEN YOU AND SEAN O'SULLIVAN
HAD THAT RIDICULOUS STAND-OFF AT ALBERTA'S LODGE. NOTHING BUT GOOD TIMES.
LOVE,JOHN"STAN"CONNOLLY
SPIDERMAN_61@MSN.COM
bronx, NY USA - Monday, October 22, 2001 at 20:06:41 (PDT)
Hello,
I want to thank the parents of this firefighter for raising such a brave person. I hope that one day I can
accomplish something half as brave as he did. I can't even imagine what this pain must be like for you, I know that I am very sad and
angry. Although I have never met you or will most likely never meet you I will promise you that he will be in my prayers. He is a hero in my book and so is every fireman and New Yorker that lost their lives/went missing on 9/11/01. I didn't lose anyone in this, but I
believe that a little part of me died as an American. bin laden doesn't scare me. He is in some cave right now while our brave men and women in the armed services are there looking for him. They will find him. Even if he
didn't do it he should exit this earth because he supports it. This is the greatest place on earth with some of the bravest men and women in the world and we will come out on top. .... America Rules!!!
Bryan
Rottieman3@aol.com
Laguna Hills, California The Great USA - Monday, October 22, 2001 at 14:20:45 (PDT)
Dear Lynch Family,
I am so sorry for your pain that you are going thru. I also lost a good friend, he was on the 104th floor. We will miss him always! I will always respect all of the firefighters, emt's, police officers, etc., that put their lives on the line without a second thought about their own lives. I hope you find comfort with God in getting you through this painful part of your lives. You have touched my life, I will never forget.
God Bless you and your Family
God Bless America
Sincerely,
Laurie Schol
Diamondgirl0763
Springfield, PA USA - Monday, October 22, 2001 at 10:18:42 (PDT)
"Michael did a far better thing that day than he had ever done.
Michael will rest in a far, far better place than he has ever known".
Jack, Kathleen, Michael's brothers and sisters and all the people who ever met him will miss him, but they will never forget him.
God bless him and keep him.
John and Anne Coleman
JohnJCole1@aol.com
Bronx, NY USA - Sunday, October 21, 2001 at 15:29:42 (PDT)
Michael, you have such a wonderful family, the support and love over here is over whelming. we held a disco in part of your honour, i wish we could do more to help the rest of your family. marie and madaline are as